Designers From Hell

in , by Tanya 8 comments

We may hope that a great design or a lovely piece of code will speak for itself, but in reality, how we interact with the client, articulate our goals, and present our work makes a huge difference in how the client perceives us and the work that we do.

Sure, there are the dream clients who have nothing but praise and love everything we produce, and the occasional bad seed who can't be pleased, but the vast majority of people fall somewhere in the middle: whether they recommend you to everyone they know, or vow never to hire you again depends on clear communication, positive feedback, and critical listening. As well as great work, of course!

We all need to let off steam now and then, and ClientsFromHell.net gives designers and developers a place to vent about ornery clients - but the site is also rife with examples of inflexibility and missed opportunities on the part of the designers as well. Going the extra mile to turn a frustrated (or frustrating) client around can pay off big time in the long term.

Culprit 1: The Missed Opportunity

Client: I've spoken to my accountant, and he said you were too expensive, that he could find me another designer for half your price, but I want to work with you. Can we renegotiate?

Designer: How much are you paying your accountant? I'm sure I can find you a cheaper one.

In a perfect world, everyone would know how much work and effort went into creating a great website. But many people don't - that's why they're looking to hire someone like you, after all.

We'd like to think we can just focus on our work, and everything else will follow, but if we're expecting people to pay us and not Discount Bob, we need to be able to clearly articulate the value we provide. If we can't even explain why we're valuable ourselves, how can we expect the client to explain it to their coworkers or accountant?

This exchange is a perfect example of an opportunity. The potential client is clearly on the fence, and even leaves an opening to be convinced by the designer. But instead of taking the opportunity, the designer responds with a snarky comment, and the moment is lost.

Being perennially undervalued can be frustrating, but we're the only ones who can change that perception. Instead of giving up, explain where the chop shops cut corners, and what you can provide that will blow them out of the water. This is not only an opportunity to sell your work, but also showcase your professionalism and interpersonal skills.

Culprit 2: Obtuse Listening

Client: "That's the wrong shade of black."
Client: "Can you take the edges in and make it more roundy and less squarey?"
Client: "Can you grow the text a little?"
Designer: "Sure, but I'll have to fertilize it first."

Quite a few of the posts on ClientsFromHell illustrate people using metaphors or leveling criticism that sounds silly to a designer's ear. But we deal in these topics every day, and have an industry-accepted design vocabulary to fall back on.

Clients may not be trained designers or know exactly how they "should" give feedback, but their opinion is vitally important. Listening to not just the words they're using, but the meaning behind them, is crucial.

Yes, technically there is only one "shade" of black. But in practice, how many objects that we might describe as "black" are actually all exactly the same color? Maybe the client would be happier with a very dark gray, or a blue-black. Being deliberately obtuse or even sarcastic for the sake of pedantry doesn't help you or the client.

Think back to the last time you were out of your depth - maybe you took your car to the mechanic, or bought a present for a loved one, or had to do home repairs. Would you like to deal with a condescending salesperson or mechanic? People want to feel like they're in capable hands, but they also want to feel like they're being listened to and treated like a person.

Turning the Tables

You may not be able to win them all, but we've found that some of our strongest client relationships had rocky beginnings. If you go that extra mile to win a client over, they'll often have the enthusiasm of the newly converted, and sing your praises to friends and colleagues.

8 comments

Andreas Nurbo says

Think this problem is universal and is in our nature. In the first example the client is really being disrespectful. If someone came to them and said the same thing they too would be annoyed. The second examples is not that they don't know designer speaks its that they don't know what they actually want. Wrong shade of black? What does that mean? Grow the text a little, is just stupid and probably just brainfart of the client. I say similar stuff myself from time to time.

Another problem is that some guess instead of saying they don't understand so they don't look stupid. Problem is the guessing is what makes them look stupid. And it consumes time. If you don't understand or don't know say so not doing so could end up cost you money in the end.


Tom Hughes says

Great topic. Let me start by saying I have a long history of sales and customer service with technology companies. As this post states it’s critical to put yourself in shoes of your client or prospect. At least it is if you want to be successful.

I strongly disagree that in the first example the client is being “disrespectful”. In over 30 years of experience I’ve found clients to rarely be antagonistic or disrespectful. If your mind set is that they are disrespectful and/or stupid you may want to reconsider if you’re the right person for a position with any type of direct client interaction.

Often they don’t know what we know and that can make them frightened and defensive. Our job should be to make them feel as comfortable as possible with giving us information about what they want and expect. A key phrase I would encourage all who read this to remember is “No one cares how much you know until they know how much you care”. When you’ve shown the client you care about them they will respond.

Clients hire people they like and respect.


Andreas Nurbo says

@tom And I disagree. The client likes the designer, client has had no problem with the designer. There was no monetary issues on the client side (just his accountants opinion). Yet feels he/she urge to say that he/she can get someone for half the price. This instills a sense that the designer is overcharging for his services, that hes in essence "scamming" the client. And that is disrespectful (unless the designer actually is overcharging and scamming the client, but I like to think the best of people =) And as you wrote. Rarely disrespectful but that mean sometimes they are.

Agree with the rest.


Tanya (ZURB) says

@Andreas: I think in many cases, tone is everything. In the first conversation, the client is reporting back what the accountant told him, and the way I read it, seems to be looking to the designer to explain why his price is different. It's a perfect opportunity for the designer to explain why his work is worth the price - and the client seems to want to be convinced. But you're right, depending on the tone, it could have been completely obnoxious and disrespectful. I don't agree that attempting to negotiate is automatically disrespectful, though - people negotiate over car sales, house prices, etc all the time. It's up to the designer to choose how to handle that.

@Tom: Good points, and it's great to hear from someone who's had so much experience working directly with customers and clients. It's not a matter of the customer always being right (that wouldn't serve the designer or the client well), but respecting their opinion and working with them to produce a final product that you can both be happy with.

In a lot of cases, doing exactly what they say they want won't solve their problems, because they're not actually sure how to articulate it. Gauging their reaction and reading between the lines to get at the answer that's right for them is half the battle (and one I happen to think is pretty interesting!).


Noel Tock says

Interesting & sometimes shocking questions/responses on both sides of the table, but why even share your interactions. Regardless how bad the comment may be, I don't think quoting existing or potential clients is ever a good thing (no matter how crazy their idea/opinion is).

For me anyway, it all starts by picking the right clients to begin with, well begun is half done.


Tanya (ZURB) says

@Noel: Don't worry, those quotes aren't from our clients - we pulled those conversations from the always-entertaining (and anonymous) ClientsFromHell.net.


Noel Tock says

Oh no worries, I understand that :) It was more a general question.